Father's Day and "Man Caves"

What is a "man cave" and how do I make one as a surprise for my husband for Father's Day?

​Please don’t think that a “man cave” should look like it sounds!  It’s not a dark hole filled with “guy stuff” where he can hibernate.  Well, at least it should not look like a dark hole.  I can best describe it as the modern version of a 1950’s Father Knows Best dad retiring to his own den wearing a smoking jacket with his pipe and slippers.  (Did anyone actually do that?)  Today, it’s really a place where Dad can go to escape the daily responsibilities of work and family -read, watch TV and be surrounded by the things he loves that help nurture and recharge him.  It doesn’t have to be large.  A spare bedroom or small place in the attic or basement can become this retreat.  It should start with a really comfortable chair (not necessarily one you would like) and a door he can close to shut out the rest of the world for a little while.  If he’s a fisherman or other sports enthusiast, this is the room where his collectibles should go, artfully placed and hung for his viewing enjoyment.  He may not want a desk, but certainly create a space for his laptop or computer.  You might also find a wall unit that incorporates storage and shelving for family pictures and his favorite books.  A cozy area rug can add a warm inviting feeling, as well.  Larger man cave areas can accommodate a bar, card or billiard table, a video game area and even a wine room which can be shared with friends and family.
               The most important thing is that you have recognized that Dad needs a get-a-way in his own home whether for fun or relaxation.  If space is lacking, perhaps the guest bedroom for company that comes infrequently is a location you can redesign to do double duty.  A sleeper sofa can free up space for Dad’s chair and if your company doesn’t root for the team on the wall, so be it.  Making good use of any space to show Dad how much he’s loved and valued is the best Father’s Day and every day present.
               There are also many man cave gifts that you can order on line which will be personalized for him such as mugs, desk organizers, clocks, plaques, photos, family history memorabilia, etc.  If you’ve got a bigger budget and he loves the feel of brick or wood paneled walls, call in the contractor now and you might have a shot at this Father’s Day.
               And - would you believe, there is a man cave web site called mancavesite.org and they sponsor an annual contest for the best man cave?  They even publish a cave dweller magazine.  You can sign Dad up to be a member of this auspicious group, but I warn you, we both might be creating a monster!  Well back to the cave - and Happy Father’s Day to all.

A more refined guys mancave that includes it all...paneled walls, ceilings, billiards, game tables, arcade machines and a bar and wine room!

A fun "retro" area for the guys

Billiards, TV and Kitchen area work great for this "guy"

A simple "guys" theater room